I’m in my fifties and I am still not comfortable with the vocabulary surrounding vision. Who ever thought of the terms “near-sighted” and “far-sighted” to describe not being able to see well the other way around? I always have to do mental gymnastics when in a conversation about vision and the need for glasses.
Anyway, I am a very far-sighted person. This sounds nice, like I am very wise, but it really means I can’t see anything up close. If I misplace or forget my reading glasses, I’m in trouble. I might be in a store thinking I have found a great bargain – something for $30 that should cost a lot more. Of course, that’s $30 without my glasses, but $80 with them.
Without my reading glasses, small print looks like little, fuzzy clumps of letters. I can try to guess from the size and placement of these clumps of letters what it might say, but it is dangerous. Once I was making an educated guess at the meaning of what I saw, only to be informed that it was written in Spanish and not in English.
I also try to wear sunglasses when I am outside to protect my eyes. This means that I am always carrying around two sets of glasses and putting them on and off constantly. Sometimes one is on my eyes and another on my head. Sometimes both are in my purse and good luck coming up with the appropriate pair. I have multiple pairs stashed all over my life – home, car, work. I even have a pair of reading sunglasses (tinted reading glasses).
As all of us who have reading glasses know, even if you have multiple pairs stashed all over the house, you never can find a pair when you need them. They are next to the keys you can’t find, no doubt.
I’ve tried wearing them on a lanyard. But at work I wear a badge on a lanyard and usually a necklace. Seriously, you could choke with all those things around your neck. Not to mention ending up with a tangled mess.
At times I almost wish I were also near-sighted (meaning I couldn’t see well at a distance…). Then I could get those fancy all-in-one glasses with bi or tri focus and instant tinting when you go outside. At least it would be just one pair of glasses. And you could wear them all the time. Simple.
Meanwhile, I guess I should enjoy the variety of colors and shapes on offer for reading glasses. I think I’ll skip the hot pink polka dots and the leopard skin frames though, they are not the look I think reflects my status as a very far-sighted person.